Take your parents on a relaxed trip to 8 spots that are easy, uncrowded, and worry-free
People often say traveling with parents is a “test of filial piety,” but choosing the right destination turns it into a leisurely time together. These 8 places are sometimes underrated by their names or seasons. Travel time by high-speed train ranges from 2 to 6 hours. The vibe varies from serene mountain and water scenes to borderland charm. Their shared advantages are no rush, no crowds, and affordable meals—perfect for slowing down and letting your parents take center stage.
01 Jiujiang | Jiangxi
When taking elders to Mount Lu, the biggest worry is climbing stairs. My advice is to skip the 2,000-plus steps at Sandie Spring and instead walk from Huajing to Ruqin Lake. Arrive before 8 AM when the lake is still shrouded in mist. The stone path is gentle, and you can walk and rest along the way. It takes about an hour and a half. Have stone fish with scrambled eggs for lunch in Guling Town. Don’t order spicy dishes; elders’ stomachs can’t handle it.
⚠️ Be sure to buy the Mount Lu sightseeing bus ticket. It’s 70 yuan per person and valid all day for unlimited rides. Don’t try to save money here. In the afternoon, visit West Sea of Mount Lu. No need to get off the boat—just take a speedboat from Sima Pier for a tour. The view of the Thousand Islands cascading into the water is stunning.
🚄 Taxi from Jiujiang Station to the cable car lower station takes about 30 minutes. The cable car up the mountain is much smoother than the winding road. Parents prone to motion sickness should choose the cable car.
02 Yanbian Korean Autonomous Prefecture | Jilin
Liuding Mountain is especially friendly for elders because there’s an electric cart at the entrance that takes you directly to the foot of the giant Buddha. Before climbing the 228 steps, rest enough at Zhengjue Temple. My dad struck the big bell three times and said it made him feel “open-hearted.” For lunch, head down to Dunhua city and find a small shop with a sign saying “warm noodles.” Buckwheat noodles in a sweet and sour broth are easier to digest than cold noodles.
🍜 I recommend “Shunji warm noodles.” It costs about 15 yuan per person. The owner saw we had elders with us and cooked the noodles two minutes longer to soften them.
⚠️ When visiting Bohai Square to see the “Asia’s largest Vajra,” don’t rush to leave. There’s a lady selling rice wine nearby for 5 yuan a cup. It’s fizzy, sweet, and sour—ten times better than bottled wine from the supermarket. If your parents are Buddhist, bring some cash. The donation box at Zhengjue Temple only accepts cash.
03 Nanning | Shandong
Don’t laugh—Nanning is in Shandong. This Fubo Temple is one of the most underrated ancient buildings on the Jiaodong Peninsula. The temple is small but peaceful. After 3 PM, there are almost no visitors. The statue of General Fubo in the main hall has a sharp, warrior-like gaze. The ancient banyan tree in front of the temple is 600 years old. Stone tables and benches are set under its shade. My parents sat there for an hour, just listening to cicadas and the wind rustling the leaves.
📍 Walk 500 meters south from the temple to “Old Yu’s Seafood.” Their spicy clams and mackerel dumplings are signature dishes. Dumplings are sold individually at 3 yuan each, with thin skins and generous fillings.
⚠️ The temple doesn’t sell incense. If you want to burn incense, bring your own from the city. In the afternoon, visit Zhongshan Road night market in Nanning city for sightseeing only. For a real meal, go to a small alley on Qixing Road. Order old friend noodles with crispy pork belly for a tangy, appetizing dish.
🚄 Taxi from Nanning East Station to Fubo Temple costs about 40 yuan. It’s hard to get a ride back, so it’s best to hire a driver to wait for an hour.
04 Dehong Dai and Jingpo Autonomous Prefecture | Yunnan
The most beautiful time at Menghuan Great Golden Pagoda is half an hour before sunset. The setting sun bathes the pagoda in flowing gold. Standing beneath and looking up gives a dizzying sense of solemnity. When taking your parents, don’t rush to climb the stairs. Walk three laps around the pagoda first. The sound of the prayer wheels is hypnotic. The viewing platform behind the pagoda overlooks all of Mangshi, offering a wide view perfect for photos.
🍜 After descending, eat hand-grabbed rice at “Pin Dehong.” One portion for 98 yuan is enough for three people. The grilled pork belly and pickled vegetable paste are the soul of the dish.
⚠️ You must remove your shoes to enter the pagoda. There’s a shoe locker at the entrance, but the ground gets hot in the afternoon. Remember to wear thick socks. If your parents have mobility issues, just walk halfway and rest at the base. Watching pigeons take flight is also enjoyable. Don’t plan activities at night. Mangshi gets dark early. Relaxing in the hotel bath is more comfortable than rushing to nightlife.
05 Zhuzhou | Hunan
Yandi Mausoleum is the most solemn stop on this trip, but don’t be scared by the word “mausoleum.” It’s actually a large park. At 9 AM, there’s a sacrificial ceremony with bells and drums. The scene is impressive, but standing too long is tiring. Find a stone bench in front of the hall 20 minutes early. The entire park’s paths are paved with non-slip bricks, wheelchair accessible. I’ve seen many families pushing elders around.
🍜 The tea oil chicken at “Luyuan Restaurant” near the park entrance is worth trying. The skin is crispy, the meat tender, and it’s fragrant with tea oil. Served with white rice, my dad even mixed the sauce with the rice.
⚠️ In the afternoon, don’t make your parents walk in Shennong Valley National Forest Park. Sit on the lawn at the park entrance and watch the stream flow over big rocks. Young people can hike to Pearl Curtain Waterfall, which takes about an hour round trip. If you have more time, visit nearby Mijiang Academy. It’s free and has a century-old osmanthus tree that smells intoxicating in autumn.
06 Bazhong | Sichuan
The red leaves of Guangwu Mountain are a love letter to autumn, but when traveling with parents, don’t try to cover the whole route. My plan is to take the park shuttle to the Natural Gallery. After getting off, just admire the row of Qinggang trees. The red leaves look like torches burning from the foot to the top of the mountain—enough for photos. Then take the bus directly to Heixiong Valley. The road is flat, and the creek is so clear you can count the stones.
⚠️ The worst part is the Xianglu Mountain cable car. The wait can be two hours, and once at the top, you’re surrounded by clouds with no view. I waited three hours that day, and my parents were exhausted.
🍜 For lunch, eat “Nanjing yellow goat soup” at the park entrance. The lamb is stewed until tender, and the broth is fresh and sweet. Ask the owner to add extra radish. Return by 4:30 PM. Guangwu Mountain cools quickly at night, and the winding mountain roads can cause motion sickness if the driver goes fast. If time is tight, just visit the Natural Gallery and Heixiong Valley. The other spots are just fillers.
07 Panjin | Liaoning
The best season for the Red Beach is from late September to mid-October. The Suaeda salsa turns a deep purple-red, like a red velvet carpet covering the earth. When taking your parents, be sure to walk the wooden boardwalk. You don’t need to step onto the mudflats to see crabs digging holes in the mud.
⚠️ It’s windy in the park. Remember to bring an extra jacket for your parents. I wore a short-sleeve shirt that day and shivered from the wind.
🍜 For lunch, try “river crab tofu” in the city. The crab’s freshness is fully absorbed by the tofu. One bowl per person, perfect with rice. In the afternoon, visit Jinbotan Beach but don’t go into the water. Walk on the sand, collect shells, and watch seagulls. My dad collected half a bag of shells to take home for his grandson to play with.
📍 After leaving Red Beach, stop by the rice paddy art in Dawa District. The golden rice fields in October, combined with windmills in the distance, make for great photos.
🚄 Taxi from Panjin Station to Red Beach costs about 50 yuan. It’s best to hire a driver because it’s hard to get a ride back.
08 Lishui | Zhejiang
Yunhe terraced fields are the most “ethereal” place on this trip, but when traveling with parents, don’t tire yourself out chasing the sunrise. Get up at 7 AM and enter the park by 8 AM. The sunlight gently shines on the terraces, the water sparkles, and it’s softer than the 4 AM sunrise. The park has sightseeing buses. Get off at Jiuqu Yunhuan Station and walk a short flat path to see the full view.
🍜 For lunch, eat farmhouse dishes in Kenggen Shizhai. The “terrace carp” is freshly caught. The meat is firm and fresh, paired with perilla leaves to remove fishiness—so fresh it’ll make your eyebrows raise. In the afternoon, visit Jinyun Xiandu. Zhutan Mountain under Dinghu Peak is a photo hotspot, but don’t let your parents walk on the stone bridge. It’s a bit slippery. Watching from the shore is enough.
⚠️ The waterfall at Qingtian Shimen Cave is spectacular but has many steps. It’s best to just look from the foot of the mountain and not climb up. If you have time, stay a night in Yunhe. The guesthouse window opens to the terraces. Morning mist rises from the fields like a painting—more beautiful than any photo.
🚄 It takes about an hour by car from Lishui Station to Yunhe terraced fields. The mountain roads are winding. Parents prone to motion sickness should take medicine in advance.
Traveling with parents is never about how many sights you check off. It’s about letting them feel “this trip was worth it” in familiar yet new scenery. Among these 8 places, I most recommend Yunhe terraced fields and Mount Lu—one gentle, one clear—both perfect for slowing down. Where have you taken your parents? Share in the comments to help others avoid pitfalls.