Making a wish feels great in the moment, but paying it back can bring tears — worse yet, your wish came true and you don’t know where to go to give thanks.
When it comes to giving thanks at temples, the biggest pitfalls are going to the wrong temple or making the wrong offering.
Here’s a guide to 6 temples in China and Thailand for giving thanks: who to thank, how to do it, and what to bring. Plan it all at a glance 👇
🛕 Hangzhou Lingyin Temple · dedicated session for giving thanks at a wish-making sanctuary
📍 Address: No. 1 Fayun Lane, Lingyin Road, Xihu District, Hangzhou
🙏 How to give thanks: choose one of three — copy sutras, have a vegetarian meal, or donate incense. Repay whatever you promised when you made your wish. Remember to provide your name and address.
✨ Highlights: The official guideline says “if your wish comes true, you must return to give thanks.” One of the busiest sites for giving thanks.
🛕 Beijing Lama Temple · the most popular place where people line up to give thanks
📍 Address: No. 12 Yonghegong Street, Dongcheng District, Beijing
🙏 How to give thanks: offer incense + fruit (apples for safety, oranges for wishes fulfilled), then get a glass-bead bracelet with incense ash to take the blessing with you.
✨ Highlights: A gathering place for young “incense-offering” visitors. At opening time, people dash in to offer the first incense, and the line for giving thanks can be even longer than the line for making wishes.
🛕 Nanjing Jiming Temple · dedicated session for giving thanks for romance
📍 Address: No. 1 Jimingsi Road, Xuanwu District, Nanjing
🙏 How to give thanks: if you found a partner or got married, return to offer flowers in thanks to the Bodhisattva. Remember to come back if your wish for love came true.
✨ Highlights: Equally famous for cherry blossoms and romance. Those returning to give thanks often smile even brighter than those making wishes.
🛕 Chengdu Wenshu Monastery · a site for giving thanks after exams
📍 Address: No. 66 Wenshuyuan Street, Qingyang District, Chengdu (Wenshu Monastery Station, Subway Line 1, Exit K. Approx. 400 m on foot)
🙏 How to give thanks: return after exams to thank Manjushri. Pick up three sticks of light incense at the entrance. Remember to come back to give thanks when your wish is fulfilled.
✨ Highlights: Most popular around high school and college entrance exams. Parents pray to Manjushri for top scores, and students come back after the exams to give thanks.
🛕 Bangkok Erawan Shrine · giving-thanks dances that made it famous
📍 Address: Ratchaprasong intersection, Bangkok (across from the CentralWorld shopping mall, next to the Erawan Hotel)
🙏 How to give thanks: when your wish comes true, invite dancers to perform as an offering. Choose 2/4/6/8 dancers. Provide your name and wish, and the classical dance will be performed on the spot.
✨ Highlights: Thailand’s most renowned giving-thanks ritual. The dances run in rotation all day, easy to watch as you pass by.
🛕 Bangkok Wat Phra Chetuphon Wimon Mangkhalaram Rajwaramahawihan · drop coins to give thanks and make merit
📍 Address: South of The Grand Palace, Bangkok (a short walk from Tha Thien Pier)
🙏 How to give thanks: drop coins sequentially into 108 bronze alms bowls to make merit. You can also apply gold leaf to the Buddha statue in gratitude.
✨ Highlights: A 46 m reclining Buddha and 108 auspicious symbols on the soles of the feet. While giving thanks, touch the Buddha’s feet for double the luck.
If you owe a vow to the Buddha, you’ll have to repay it sooner or later. Closing the loop means paying it back the right way.
*For reference only. Making and repaying vows can serve as a psychological anchor. Good luck and outcomes ultimately come from your own steps forward. Sincerity helps, and action helps even more.